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If you’re having a rough time with stepping fully, ALL IN, into yourself and your purpose because of limiting beliefs, fear and blocks, maybe you don’t need another strategy; maybe, you need a fresh perspective.

Subconscious programs in our minds are only a set of self-created rules.

Old decisions based on experiences from childhood, pain, hardship, lessons learned, desperation and confusion –

that mutated into your very own custom set of LIFE RULES.

You know dis, MAN!

Rules about –

Life

Love

Money

Sex

Status

Self image

Relationships

Success

God/spirituality

 How the world works, in general.

How you’re supposed to react/respond.

Who you’re supposed to be.

You follow them automatically.

You follow them blindly.

You follow them even when your heart and soul don’t want you to.

You follow them on repeat.

You follow them for months and years.

Even if/when they contradict what you feel inside over and over.

Maybe they served a purpose at on point, but now?

Old. Dated. Irrelevant. Unnecessary.

Still, a choice.

And as you become aware of them, sometimes the urge to break them grows stronger.

Many times, and for most, the safety and comfort of knowing what to expect of the old rules overpowers any action you may want to take to change.

You complain and moan and groan, but self sabotage is a bitch that gives you exactly what you want.

“You want to try something new, exciting and wayyyyyy out of your comfort zone?!

 Suuuuuuure. Here’s fear, panic, a headache and just in case you’re not convinced yet, your period is 8 days early!”

You go to war with yourself.

You sink deeper into seeing yourself as powerless.

And all the while, you forget –

Rules can be broken.

It’s as simple as that.

When you truly decide something, nothing can stop you.

You challenge every limit, fear and obstacle, and find a way, do whatever it takes.

 For there to be any real creativity, art, progress, and change in this world –

rules have to be broken. They’re made to.

The lines eventually burst at the seams.

You’re not meant to stay within those lines forever.

That’s why you keep searching, digging, questioning.

You know there’s more available to you, easily accessible and already yours –

Waiting for you to break through barriers and thresholds.

You know you’ve gotten to where you are today, regardless of whether the increments were large or small, by reaching those moments of absolute hell yes and breaking down those walls.

And you’ve also allowed yourself to sit like a good little girl/boy, doing what’s expected of you, responsible and SAFE.

Playing by the rules.

The sad part is that even though you choose to be there again and again, it’s killing you.

It’s slowly eating away at your soul everyday to play SO damn small, to not use to your full extent and potential all the gifts God gave you.

To keep doing life at half ass.

To keep getting happiness, money, success, glimpses of purpose, HALF ASS.

To know so many deep truths about life and yourself, but to end up falling back in line –

doing the same ol same ol because you just can’t fucking see that it’s ONLY a game and you are good enough to MAKE UP YOUR OWN RULES.

Your game. Your rules.

 You don’t have to keep at it the old way.

 You don’t have to keep spending your energy in the wrong situations.

You can choose to keep letting life happen to you, or you can be intentional, disciplined and focused on creating it from a place within you that fills and completes you.

The question is:

Are you willing to finally get uncomfortable, face the fact that they no longer serve you, and break those old life ruleAre you willing to walk away from anything, anyone and pay any cost to live your life the way YOU want?

Will you choose to surrender and release all the masks, covers and layers that have been hiding what and who you are?

Are you willing to challenge everything, including yourself, question everything, put everything on hold to wait if you must, to hear and REMEMBER – to do ONLY what is 100% right by, with and for YOU?

Because that’s the only way you will be able to finally remember why you were put here.

Never forget –

Life’s a game. Break all the rules.

– V

 

Book a Private Session 

with Vanessa

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If you’re having a rough time with stepping fully, ALL IN, into yourself and your purpose because of limiting beliefs, fear and blocks, maybe you don’t need another strategy; maybe, you need a fresh perspective.

Subconscious programs in our minds are only a set of self-created rules.

Old decisions based on experiences from childhood, pain, hardship, lessons learned, desperation and confusion –

that mutated into your very own custom set of LIFE RULES.

You know dis, MAN!

Rules about –

Life

Love

Money

Sex

Status

Self image

Relationships

Success

God/spirituality

 How the world works, in general.

How you’re supposed to react/respond.

Who you’re supposed to be.

You follow them automatically.

You follow them blindly.

You follow them even when your heart and soul don’t want you to.

You follow them on repeat.

You follow them for months and years.

Even if/when they contradict what you feel inside over and over.

Maybe they served a purpose at on point, but now?

Old. Dated. Irrelevant. Unnecessary.

Still, a choice.

And as you become aware of them, sometimes the urge to break them grows stronger.

Many times, and for most, the safety and comfort of knowing what to expect of the old rules overpowers any action you may want to take to change.

You complain and moan and groan, but self sabotage is a bitch that gives you exactly what you want.

“You want to try something new, exciting and wayyyyyy out of your comfort zone?!

 Suuuuuuure. Here’s fear, panic, a headache and just in case you’re not convinced yet, your period is 8 days early!”

You go to war with yourself.

You sink deeper into seeing yourself as powerless.

And all the while, you forget –

Rules can be broken.

It’s as simple as that.

When you truly decide something, nothing can stop you.

You challenge every limit, fear and obstacle, and find a way, do whatever it takes.

 For there to be any real creativity, art, progress, and change in this world –

rules have to be broken. They’re made to.

The lines eventually burst at the seams.

You’re not meant to stay within those lines forever.

That’s why you keep searching, digging, questioning.

You know there’s more available to you, easily accessible and already yours –

Waiting for you to break through barriers and thresholds.

You know you’ve gotten to where you are today, regardless of whether the increments were large or small, by reaching those moments of absolute hell yes and breaking down those walls.

And you’ve also allowed yourself to sit like a good little girl/boy, doing what’s expected of you, responsible and SAFE.

Playing by the rules.

The sad part is that even though you choose to be there again and again, it’s killing you.

It’s slowly eating away at your soul everyday to play SO damn small, to not use to your full extent and potential all the gifts God gave you.

To keep doing life at half ass.

To keep getting happiness, money, success, glimpses of purpose, HALF ASS.

To know so many deep truths about life and yourself, but to end up falling back in line –

doing the same ol same ol because you just can’t fucking see that it’s ONLY a game and you are good enough to MAKE UP YOUR OWN RULES.

Your game. Your rules.

 You don’t have to keep at it the old way.

 You don’t have to keep spending your energy in the wrong situations.

You can choose to keep letting life happen to you, or you can be intentional, disciplined and focused on creating it from a place within you that fills and completes you.

The question is:

Are you willing to finally get uncomfortable, face the fact that they no longer serve you, and break those old life ruleAre you willing to walk away from anything, anyone and pay any cost to live your life the way YOU want?

Will you choose to surrender and release all the masks, covers and layers that have been hiding what and who you are?

Are you willing to challenge everything, including yourself, question everything, put everything on hold to wait if you must, to hear and REMEMBER – to do ONLY what is 100% right by, with and for YOU?

Because that’s the only way you will be able to finally remember why you were put here.

Never forget –

Life’s a game. Break all the rules.

– V

 

Book a Private Session 

with Vanessa